Girls don’t even suspect that they are side chicks. But to
some of them know their real role, but agree to continue such
unhealthy relationships.
Below are them reasons on why Nigerian girls prefer to be
number 2.. or even less
1. Just to show it off
Some Nigerian women prefer to have some relationships just
to belong to the crowd. Maybe they saw boyfriends of their
friends and wanted the same. So they agree to become a
mistress even if they know that a guy is in serious
relationships. They keep a guy around only to drain some
material things from him.
2. Fear of loneliness
Many girls can agree for less, just not to feel themselves
lonely. So to escape it they will date even a guy with a wife.
Actually they can jump at any guy who will come their way.
3. Too much emotions
It happens because girls love guy too much to let him go.
Even if he already has a girlfriend. Such obsession can force
her to become a side chick.
4. Pressure
Some families insist their kids to bring a man and to get
married. So some girls are forced to look for a man
everywhere and at any costs.
5. Desire
Some girl are becoming side chicks just for fun. She probably
find interesting the idea of playing with a guy. Some Nigerian
girls think that it is cool to sneak around with a guy who
dates with another woman.
6. They want attention
Some Nigerian girls agree to be another chick because they
adore being special. If a guy pamper them and make them
feel desired, they don’t care whether he has a girlfriend.
7. She thinks that she is not good enough
Guy can tell her that she is not good enough to be his
girlfriend. But she can be his side chick. A poor thing agrees
because she thinks that this is an only variant and starts to
think that she is miserable.
8. Hope
Some Nigerian girls hope and believe that one day the would
become official girlfriends or even wives. So she will agree to
be on the second place, but she will do her best to win his
heart permanently.
Conclusion
Being a side chick is not a proud role for a good Nigerian
girl. You should not want to get this title. Of course
sometimes things not go as planned. But you should define
on what you want from relationship and never settle for less.