Looking To Spice Up Your Relationship? Great! Tease Him Tonight

Most women tend to throw the art of flirting out of the window as soon as they tie the knot. They think winking at him, giving him that sexy eye contact or whispering in his ear using a sensual tone could interpret “Hey, baby, I’m ready,” when in actual fact, they’re not in the mood to deliver. You may wonder, “Why try to get his attention when he’s already mine?” Well, keep his interest and let him be gagging for it with these tips…Angie

Listen: There’s nothing that shows how much you care and want someone than when the person has your ear. Sometimes, you need to remove that ‘superwoman-multitasking’ cape to spend quality time with your hubby. Listen to his jokes and whatever he has to say; give him full attention and make eye contact with him as he speaks. Yes, you’ve got so many things to say too, but this time, seal your lips and just listen!

Talk: Instead of watching TV sitting at a distance from each other, you could snuggle up in his lap. Seize the moment to talk about personal things you’ve not been able to discuss in a while and no, not on your finances or the kids. Also, whisper in his ear seductively and don’t forget to sprinkle some compliments.

Smile: That simple? Yes! According to Elizabeth Cullen in her article How to Flirt With Your Husband (2009), smiling at your husband is the most essential act of flirting. Pouting your lips, expressing your personality, your sense of humour and your ability to go all shy when he looks at you seductively could boost his already building sexual desire.

Wear something tempting: Guys are visual creatures so when both of you are together, wear something sexy and make his eyes dancing over your body non-stop! Put on that sexually exciting lingerie he’s always wanted you to wear or better still, shove the pyjamas for a more revealing night dress and see if he’ll gaze at the match on TV or on you. For the woman who wants to flirt yet still act ‘busy’, Sheila Wray Gregoire in her article, 16 Ways to Flirt With Your Husband(2012) gives an example of how to privately ‘flash’ your man while still doing your chores: “When you mop the floor, wear a [skimpy] skirt but go commando and get down on all fours to see if he notices.” Sure he will!

Touch him lightly: This has nothing to do with heavy petting or other sexual caresses… no, even though these are essential. In The Art of Flirting (for Women),2008, Mike Lee suggests other ways of having intimate physical contact with him like holding his hand, patting his thigh, tousling his hair, leaning up against him, playful squeezing him and don’t forget the long-lasting hugs.

Catch him off guard: You may wonder how to show your man a little sexiness after you’ve been married for a while; there’s nothing you can do that will surprise him right? Not to worry, there are still some things you can do to throw him off balance; you just need to get creative. You can start by wearing those skinny jeans he’s been asking you to wear but you didn’t because you were too concerned about your flabby thighs. You can also go away to an exotic hotel for the weekend – the bill will be on you though – and whet your sexual appetite.

Text, ping, call: So you’re not even in the mood for all the things listed because your libido is away on sabbatical. Well, you can start gearing up for the ‘heat session’. While he’s at work, you can have his best dish ready. Spice it up by sending him a text to find out how his day has been so far and tell him how much you can’t wait to have him in your arms. You want to up that? Then call in your most seductive voice and say it instead; sure he’ll be home hours earlier than usual!

You still think you need more ideas on how to flirt with your man? Then flirtatiously ask him during your intimate discussion!